People seldom realize how important someone is until they are gone forever…some “friends” turn out to be not so friendly, and one realizes who is supportive, who is a real friend…or who just simply wants to gossip about it with no real interest.
Life can get harsh, family members, friends, anyone important for you can die any day and several things may occur due to this. For instance, when my grandfather passed away I got depressed (it can be said that I am still quite depressed), I had no interest in doing any thing, my grades got low, stopped socializing, I even thought of killing myself, I just didn’t want to keep feeling like this. To make things even worse, my dog died too. How does one manages the pain? The sorrow and hollowness the death of a loved one, how someone deals with it?
I’ve asked that question to some people and the majority said “Time”, “Life is like that…”
Even though the answers are vague, they are true to a certain extent. Time by itself will not heal anyone, time simply provides time (duh, of course it does) for one to think, to think all the beautiful experiences and memories the loved one left us with. And yes, life is like that, death comes to us all and there is absolutely nothing that can be done about it, but to enjoy every single moment with everyone you love. I realized this after watching the video.
After watching this video I felt this mysterious energy, I felt the necessity of being successful, surpassing the harshness life is charging against me, so I did. I chose to be happy, I want to be happy. Wanting to be happy will never bring happiness to my life, thus I am working on it… It cannot be achieved in one day time, the trick is striving for progress, not perfection, because with progress and hard work comes success.